What I love about my man is that he doesn't leave.
No matter how strong and intense my energy is, he doesn't leave.
He welcomes it. He can handle my charge, and he sees how it sharpens his own sword of Presence.
This allows me the safety and security to peel back the layers of all of my masks/ego so that I can stand in front of him in true Authenticity.
And then the container gets stronger with SO MUCH Trust that our connection is profound beyond words.
My man doesn't leave.
Even when my nervous system can't possibly hold the amount of love that he's directing at me and I try to escape feeling the intensity of that charge, and his full presence, leading me to unconsciously self-sabotage what we have in subtle ways.
Gay and Kathleen Hendricks pinpoint that the only problem in awakened, conscious relationships is the Upper Limit Problem.
That the only thing you REALLY have to watch out for at this level is blocking your own ability to experience the majesty of such a high-level container, which often plays out through unconscious self-sabotage.
They write, "most of us cannot be close to others for very long without creating a problem to limit the positive energy."
This is what we're playing with right now. Can we allow the high vibrational energy that we co-created in our relationship to run through our system without freaking out and trying to block it from coming in?
We often think that we avoid relationships when things get hard, and that's true, but can you ask yourself if the opposite is also true? That you simply can't handle the charge of SO MUCH GOODNESS?
In what ways are you committed to expanding your nervous system's ability to hold maximum joy, love, and pleasure?
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