The Relationship Upgrade
For couples serious about taking things to the next level
I am honored to work with committed couples who desire next-level relationships. This is because it is my belief that healthy romantic relationships provide us the richest opportunity to evolve into our highest selves.
Not only have I seen this with my own eyes when working with others, but I've experienced it profoundly in my own life. It's been quite a journey, and it didn't come easy - but what I know now is what I wish somebody taught me years ago.
Couples come to me when they want to:
Unfortunately, nobody teaches us how to have amazing relationships (unless we are one of the lucky ones whose parents were amazing models.) So when my marriage failed in 2014, I had to humbly admit that there was much to learn. I became determined to master the areas of love + sex, and after years of dedicating myself to that end, I am now in the happiest, healthiest, most passionate relationship ever with the man of my dreams.
Through seeing our relationship through the lens of growth and pushing ourselves to show up as the best versions of ourselves daily, we have skyrocketed our careers and personal evolution. I want nothing more than to help couples experience the bliss of deep intimacy, unparalleled support, and massive growth with their partners.
Romantic relationships are the fastest way to transform, because they will:
Not only have I seen this with my own eyes when working with others, but I've experienced it profoundly in my own life. It's been quite a journey, and it didn't come easy - but what I know now is what I wish somebody taught me years ago.
Couples come to me when they want to:
- Uplevel their communication skills.
- Deepen intimacy and connection
- Face conflict together in a healthy way, so the relationship stays clean + clear
- Learn the foundations of conscious relationships to seriously uplevel their lives
- Understand how to keep the spark alive through the concept of polarity and multidimensional connection
- Maintain their separate sense of self in the relationship while also being able to deeply connect
Unfortunately, nobody teaches us how to have amazing relationships (unless we are one of the lucky ones whose parents were amazing models.) So when my marriage failed in 2014, I had to humbly admit that there was much to learn. I became determined to master the areas of love + sex, and after years of dedicating myself to that end, I am now in the happiest, healthiest, most passionate relationship ever with the man of my dreams.
Through seeing our relationship through the lens of growth and pushing ourselves to show up as the best versions of ourselves daily, we have skyrocketed our careers and personal evolution. I want nothing more than to help couples experience the bliss of deep intimacy, unparalleled support, and massive growth with their partners.
Romantic relationships are the fastest way to transform, because they will:
- Bring up all of your 'stuff' so that you can heal and grow - things you can't see on your own, and things that don't come up in any other type of relationship.
- Allow you to experience deep vulnerability so that you can see what it feels like to be loved fully for all of your parts.
- Give you an opportunity to practice moving through conflict in a healthy way, without running away from challenges.
- Provide a safe container to heal any sexual wounds or traumas.
- Serve as a catalyst for both of you to grow into your highest selves, because the relationship is filled with love, support, and accountability.
This is for all the couples who:
- Know there is a much deeper, more intimate way of relating that is 100% possible to achieve.
- Understand that romantic relationships have the potential to evolve each partner exponentially.
- Want to take their current relationship into levels beyond their wildest dreams.
- Desire to learn what it means to be in a truly conscious relationship.
- Are looking to improve communication in a big way with their partners.
- Want to maintain long-term sexual attraction in their relationship.
The Relationship Upgrade
During our three months together, I will help you massively uplevel your relationship in order to move into high level partnership that will blow your mind. Imagine open-hearted, connected communication, exquisite sex that transcends the physical, and a container of deep love + support that skyrockets you into your highest expression in this world.
Week 1: Welcome Call (45 minutes)
An opportunity for the three of us to meet so you can share your story, specific goals, and any important details before we get into the content.
PHASE ONE: ALIGNMENT
Week 2 - The Power of Conscious Relationships + How to Get Aligned
This work is absolutely foundational to the success of a strong, high level partnership, and allows you to implement strategies right away to take things to the next level. You will each work through the content/teachings I provide, which includes videos, workbooks, and partner exercises.
Week 3 - 2 x Individual Sessions
You each meet with me individually for 60 min sessions - it's important for you to have a private space to share the relationship of your wildest dreams, without fear of hurting your partner's feelings.
Week 4 - Couple Session
We come together to consciously go through the process of alignment to ensure that you are both getting your needs met and can provide what the other person desires.
PHASE TWO: OPEN-HEARTED COMMUNICATION
Week 5 - Deep Listening, Authentic Expression, and Conscious Conflict Resolution
These are foundational skills from which everything else unfolds! We'll expand your deep listening + authentic expression skills and also address conflict resolution and boundary setting. You will each work through the content/teachings I provide, which includes videos, workbooks, and partner exercises.
Week 6 - Couple Session
We come together for a deep dive into your communication patterns + goals to set you up for success.
PHASE THREE: SEXUAL EXCELLENCE
Week 7 - Polarity, Sexual Healing, Body Love, Multidimensional Connection, Confidence + All the Things
We'll strip away shame around sexuality and your right to feel pleasure, talk about keeping magnetism alive through the concept of polarity, and unlock the four levels of intimacy (physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual). You will each work through the content/teachings I provide, which includes videos, workbooks, and partner exercises.
Week 8 - 2 x Individual Sessions
You each meet with me individually for 60 min sessions - sexuality can be extraordinarily vulnerable, so I want the chance to work with each of you privately first.
Week 9 - Couple Session
We come together for real talk about how to take your sex life to the next level, and why this is so important.
PHASE FOUR: THE DANCE OF UNION + SEPARATION
Week 10 - The Balance of Togetherness and Maintaining your Identity
You will learn to shift between intimate connection with your partner and separation back into your own self to maintain your identity and to keep the spark alive. This will protect against codependency and help to prevent 'losing yourself' in relationships. You will each work through the content/teachings I provide, which includes videos, workbooks, and partner exercises.
Week 11 - Couples Session
We all meet together to discuss current dynamics with regards to this essential balance and create strategies to protect the relationship from unhealthy patterns.
INTEGRATION
Week 12: Couples Session
Wrapping up - integration of the program, coverage for any areas you desire additional support in, and future visioning to the max.
During our three months together, I will help you massively uplevel your relationship in order to move into high level partnership that will blow your mind. Imagine open-hearted, connected communication, exquisite sex that transcends the physical, and a container of deep love + support that skyrockets you into your highest expression in this world.
Week 1: Welcome Call (45 minutes)
An opportunity for the three of us to meet so you can share your story, specific goals, and any important details before we get into the content.
PHASE ONE: ALIGNMENT
Week 2 - The Power of Conscious Relationships + How to Get Aligned
This work is absolutely foundational to the success of a strong, high level partnership, and allows you to implement strategies right away to take things to the next level. You will each work through the content/teachings I provide, which includes videos, workbooks, and partner exercises.
Week 3 - 2 x Individual Sessions
You each meet with me individually for 60 min sessions - it's important for you to have a private space to share the relationship of your wildest dreams, without fear of hurting your partner's feelings.
Week 4 - Couple Session
We come together to consciously go through the process of alignment to ensure that you are both getting your needs met and can provide what the other person desires.
PHASE TWO: OPEN-HEARTED COMMUNICATION
Week 5 - Deep Listening, Authentic Expression, and Conscious Conflict Resolution
These are foundational skills from which everything else unfolds! We'll expand your deep listening + authentic expression skills and also address conflict resolution and boundary setting. You will each work through the content/teachings I provide, which includes videos, workbooks, and partner exercises.
Week 6 - Couple Session
We come together for a deep dive into your communication patterns + goals to set you up for success.
PHASE THREE: SEXUAL EXCELLENCE
Week 7 - Polarity, Sexual Healing, Body Love, Multidimensional Connection, Confidence + All the Things
We'll strip away shame around sexuality and your right to feel pleasure, talk about keeping magnetism alive through the concept of polarity, and unlock the four levels of intimacy (physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual). You will each work through the content/teachings I provide, which includes videos, workbooks, and partner exercises.
Week 8 - 2 x Individual Sessions
You each meet with me individually for 60 min sessions - sexuality can be extraordinarily vulnerable, so I want the chance to work with each of you privately first.
Week 9 - Couple Session
We come together for real talk about how to take your sex life to the next level, and why this is so important.
PHASE FOUR: THE DANCE OF UNION + SEPARATION
Week 10 - The Balance of Togetherness and Maintaining your Identity
You will learn to shift between intimate connection with your partner and separation back into your own self to maintain your identity and to keep the spark alive. This will protect against codependency and help to prevent 'losing yourself' in relationships. You will each work through the content/teachings I provide, which includes videos, workbooks, and partner exercises.
Week 11 - Couples Session
We all meet together to discuss current dynamics with regards to this essential balance and create strategies to protect the relationship from unhealthy patterns.
INTEGRATION
Week 12: Couples Session
Wrapping up - integration of the program, coverage for any areas you desire additional support in, and future visioning to the max.
A three month journey of intensive transformation:
+ 12 weeks of a complete paradigm shift in your relationship
+ 10 private sessions (a mix of individual + couple)
+ Weekly homework (videos, workbooks + guided meditations)
+ Voxer support between sessions
+ Free access to monthly group masterclasses + new group programs
+ Personalized resources and recommendations as needed
+ The opportunity to create massive shifts in your relationship
$2222/month per couple
+ 10 private sessions (a mix of individual + couple)
+ Weekly homework (videos, workbooks + guided meditations)
+ Voxer support between sessions
+ Free access to monthly group masterclasses + new group programs
+ Personalized resources and recommendations as needed
+ The opportunity to create massive shifts in your relationship
$2222/month per couple
Key Aspects of the Program:
Personalized Assessments. Before providing support, I assess where you are in each area through short surveys so that I can fully individualize our work. This will allow us to use our time wisely when we meet.
Shadow work. It takes courage to face things that we don't want to deal with. Shadow work refers to the process of turning towards things we hide away due to shame, trauma, or just simply not having the emotional bandwidth to handle them on our own. It is work that is best done with support. Carl Jung said, "Until we make the unconscious conscious, it will direct our life and we will call it fate." This is exactly why you want to face your shadows - and owning the fullness of who we are can be met with love + compassion.
Addressing victim mentality. Falling into victim mode is a very disempowering place to be, but we've all done it. However, as adults, we need to take full responsibility for our lives, including healing our childhood wounds. We have the power to set clear intentions around the types of relationships we want in our lives, to not settle for anything less, and to uphold our boundaries when people around us treat us in ways we do not like.
Shadow work. It takes courage to face things that we don't want to deal with. Shadow work refers to the process of turning towards things we hide away due to shame, trauma, or just simply not having the emotional bandwidth to handle them on our own. It is work that is best done with support. Carl Jung said, "Until we make the unconscious conscious, it will direct our life and we will call it fate." This is exactly why you want to face your shadows - and owning the fullness of who we are can be met with love + compassion.
Addressing victim mentality. Falling into victim mode is a very disempowering place to be, but we've all done it. However, as adults, we need to take full responsibility for our lives, including healing our childhood wounds. We have the power to set clear intentions around the types of relationships we want in our lives, to not settle for anything less, and to uphold our boundaries when people around us treat us in ways we do not like.
Who Am I?
My name is Leigh-Anne, and I'm a 40 something mom and holistic psychologist living in Los Angeles. I am also in the happiest, most passionate relationship of my life following my divorce in 2017.
I help free individuals of fear, insecurity, and low self-worth because I have gone through it all myself and am now on the other side.
With years of experience working with hundreds of clients, in addition to specializing in love, sex + relationships, I now offer the tools that have helped me reach levels higher than I thought were possible.
It is my life's work to create serious impact in the world of love, sex + relationships, for the greatest good of all.
I serve couples who yearn to experience deep connection and intimacy. This program was designed to guide you into the highest expression of your relationship in order to massively expand you + your partner's personal development. I truly believe this type of work changes the world.
I work with intelligent, committed couples who:
I help free individuals of fear, insecurity, and low self-worth because I have gone through it all myself and am now on the other side.
With years of experience working with hundreds of clients, in addition to specializing in love, sex + relationships, I now offer the tools that have helped me reach levels higher than I thought were possible.
It is my life's work to create serious impact in the world of love, sex + relationships, for the greatest good of all.
I serve couples who yearn to experience deep connection and intimacy. This program was designed to guide you into the highest expression of your relationship in order to massively expand you + your partner's personal development. I truly believe this type of work changes the world.
I work with intelligent, committed couples who:
- Want to massively uplevel the relationship.
- Are willing to do the work necessary to own their parts and grow where they need to grow.
- Understand that relationships are co-created and each person owns some responsibility.
- Desire immense passion, connection, and intimacy.
- Want to heal their relationship with love, sexuality, and communication patterns.
- Are ready to create huge shifts in themselves, benefiting everyone around them.
Application
It's important to me that we're a good fit. Please apply by clicking here and filling out a short form. I'll reach out within 24 hours of receiving your application.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: How do we know this is the right fit for us?
A: This is the right fit for you if you are thrilled about the possibility of massive expansion in your relationship, AND you have a deep knowing that I'm speaking to you and your current needs.
I am looking for couples who are committed and who realize that while this program can change your life, you have to show up and do the work. Our relationship is co-created - I can't change you directly, but I can create the conditions for you to grow and transform into the best version of yourselves.
Q: What will our sessions be like?
A: Each session, we take a deep and honest dive into your current relationship dynamics, concentrating on the theme we are on. Things may come up that are difficult, and all emotions are honored. However, the overall vibe is one of positivity, growth, and taking things to the next level, and I need you to hold that vibration in our work together - that every challenge that may arise is a sacred opportunity to take things to the next level and make your relationship super strong, healthy, and vibrant.
Please contact me directly if you have any further questions that are not answered here. I look forward to hearing from you!
