Healthy sexuality is our birthright.
Many of us know deep down inside that sexuality is meant to be one of the most beautiful, intimate, and sacred exchanges that we can have with another person. Despite this, so many of us are walking around with sexual wounding that makes this part of our lives traumatic at worst, and mediocre at best.
There is a way out.
In my life, I've overcome so many things that have led me to dedicate my life to serving others. A difficult childhood, drug and alcohol abuse, social anxiety, lack of self-love, and poor boundaries (in addition to a family history of mental illness) led me to become a psychologist with the desire to figure it all out and help myself and others.
I'm now in the healthiest, most connected relationship of my life, and helping others break through the barriers preventing us from experiencing incredible love, sex, and relationships is my passion.
What I've been shown in my own personal journey of healing is that the childhood sexual abuse that I experienced was the root cause of so many things going downhill.
I'm now in a place where I can offer specific and targeted healing work around this topic, because God has led me to a breakthrough where I now see the root cause of what is going on, as well as the bigger collective patterning around the sexual abuse cycle.
Many people, myself included, have spent incredible amounts of time and money on traditional therapy and/or coaching and still have not fully healed.
What I know now is that unless you deal with the sexual abuse imprints and scars on an energetic level, it will continue to wreak havoc in the background, attracting situations that keep you stuck in the victim-perpetrator cycle.
I can help you finally break free of the cycle of abuse because I work beyond psychology to address the energetic/spiritual level.
Using a combination of talk therapy, breathwork, and energetic boundary work, we work to clear the energetic layers that become stuck in our energy fields from trauma, abuse, negative programming, and the devastating byproduct of a society that is truly in the Dark Ages when it comes to sexuality.
If you would like to work with me on this level, please schedule below in the resources section.
We are all meant to experience the true nature of a healthy and pure sexual connection with another human being. The vast majority of us are carrying around energies related to victim and/or perpetrator programming related to sexuality, and we must release these energies to truly embody healthy sexual expression.
If you find yourself playing out any of the below patterns, it's a sign that you need to do the energetic clearing work to remove these energies from your field. Otherwise they will continue to manifest in your life in destructive ways.
- Continually attracting situations where you are the victim of sexual abuse, trauma, boundary violations, and/or other unwanted occurrences.
- Stuck in sexual shame or unhealthy, damaging attitudes + beliefs towards sexuality that prevent you from enjoying healthy intimate experiences with those that you love.
- Sexual addiction tendencies towards pornography, promiscuity, compulsive masturbation, paying for sexual experiences, etc.
- Any predatory thoughts or feelings, even if you have not acted upon them.
While women tend to carry more of the sexual victim energy, and men the predator energy, men and women can carry both, and they are often two sides of the same coin.
It is my life's work to help people clear lower level energies that are not ours, energies and thought patterns that interfere with a life of beautiful intimate exchanges with our partners.
I have a lot more to say about the importance of this work, and how there is a war on healthy love, sex + relationships, so keep your eye on my work to learn more.
Resources to Heal Sexuality
The first two are great for personal empowerment, and I will always give you tools to do the work yourself. The third option is working directly with me to go deeper.
Breathwork: Energetic Clearing
This is a very powerful guided breathwork session by David Elliott (my teacher) and will help to clear lower level energies from your field.
Energetic Boundaries
This book by Cyndi Dale is foundational for understanding the auric field and why we must work on the energetic level for lasting change.
Clearing Sessions
For those that desire 1:1 support, I offer energetic clearing sessions to clients. I use a combination of therapy, breathwork, guided visualization, and energetic boundary work to clear any lower level energies that need to be released from trauma, abuse, and/or negative programming. Please book a free connection call with me below if you are interested.