“Intimate relationship is a place especially ripe for the deepest sort of healing and awakening, through which the full integration of our physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual dimensions is more than possible.”
- Robert Augustus Masters
My Story
I know what it’s like to settle for less than you deserve in relationships. For nearly 20 years, I was stuck in a relationship where we were living parallel lives, unhappy and unseen on a soul level.
When my marriage fell apart, I had to get really humble and admit that I had a lot to learn about how to be in a happy, healthy, thriving relationship.
At the time, I was gently guided to see that all relationships are co-created, and I began to own my part - that I was abandoning myself, putting him on a pedestal, and walking on eggshells so that I didn't rock the boat.
I wanted him so badly to love me that I shape shifted into whatever I thought he wanted me to be. And then when that didn't fully work, I became resentful.
It was a hard pill to swallow, but I saw how I was enabling the behavior to continue in the relationship by the simple fact that I chose to stay for so long.
The Turnaround
As I began to reclaim all parts of me, and knew in my bones that I was fully lovable, I showed up much differently. And when he wasn't able to meet me there, I knew it was time to leave and start over.
After I got over the intense shame of our divorce, I started to notice clearly that the majority of people around me didn't know how to do relationships well either.
It was a real portal of transformation that inspired me to switch gears in my practice as a psychologist and dedicate my life to conscious love, sex + relationships. It is my passion to serve you in this way, to step into a love beyond your wildest dreams.
The New Paradigm of Relationships
We are on the edge of a new era of spiritual partnerships, and we have the potential to do things very differently - and to be models of happy, healthy relationships for our children and everyone around us.
Relationships bring up all of our stuff, and they're an opportunity for us to heal trauma, unhelpful patterns, and limiting beliefs that are holding us back in life - and in love.
When relationships are approached consciously (which is what I can support you with), they can provide the rich fuel of love and support that accelerates us to our highest, and supercharges us to grow beyond what we could do by ourselves.
Let me help you create the relationship you deeply desire.
Speaking Events, Podcasts + Collaboration
I love teaching, and speak regularly on the following topics. Please contact me if you're interested in having me speak at your event or on your podcast. I love to collaborate with others in the field.
- How to Alchemize Divorce into Your Greatest Blessing
- The Power of Conscious Relationships
- Masculine/Feminine Polarity
- How to Heal From a Breakup
- Cultivating the Divine Feminine + Masculine
- How to Protect Against Codependency
- Open-Hearted Communication
- Supercharged Intimacy
- Conscious Monogamy
- Truth-Telling in Relationships
