“Intimate relationship is a place especially ripe for the deepest sort of healing and awakening, through which the full integration of our physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual dimensions is more than possible.”
- Robert Augustus Masters
My Story
Because of my own lessons in love, I have devoted my life to incredible relationships.
For nearly 20 years, I was stuck in a relationship where we were living parallel lives, unhappy and unseen on a soul level. Emotions weren't safe to be expressed, and I felt stifled and disrespected.
When my marriage fell apart, I had to get humble and admit that I had a lot to learn about how to be in a happy, healthy relationship.
I was guided to see that all relationships are co-created, and I began to own my part - that I was abandoning myself, putting him on a pedestal, and walking on eggshells so that I didn't rock the boat.
I wanted him so badly to love me that I shapeshifted into whatever I thought he wanted me to be. And then when that didn't work the way I wanted it to, I became resentful.
It was a hard pill to swallow, but I saw how I was enabling the unhealthy dynamic to continue with my lack of healthy boundaries and continuing to settle for less than I deserved, due to low self-love and self-worth.
The Turnaround
As I began to heal, and knew in my bones that I was fully lovable, I began to show up much differently. I wasn't willing to suppress my true self anymore, and didn't suppress my emotions or needs any longer.
We spent two years in therapy trying to save our marriage. But it was too far gone, so we knew it was time to leave and start over.
After I got over the intense shame of our divorce, I started to notice that most people don't know how to do relationships well either. I began to share my story and was amazed at how many people could relate.
It was an intense portal of transformation that inspired me to dedicate my life to conscious love, sex + relationships.
The New Paradigm of Relationships
We are on the edge of a new era of spiritual partnerships, and we have the potential to do things very differently - to use relationships consciously for growth and evolution.
They are meant to be used as a catalyst for transformation - to heal and expand into our highest selves.
Relationships bring up all of our stuff for a reason - it's an opportunity for us to heal trauma, old patterns, and programming that is out of alignment with our highest self.
Relationships are mirrors, showing us our blind spots. Self-work is essential, but relationships take it to the next level, because we are shown things we would never be able to see on our own.
They also provide the rich fuel of love and support that accelerates us to our highest, stretching us to grow beyond what we could do by ourselves.
Let me help you create the relationship you deeply desire.
Speaking Events, Podcasts + Collaboration
I love speaking on the following topics. Please contact me if you're interested in having me speak at your event or on your podcast. I love to collaborate with others in the field.
- The Power of Conscious Relationships
- How to Heal From a Breakup
- Cultivating the Divine Feminine + Masculine
- How to Protect Against Codependency
- How to Alchemize Heartbreak into Your Greatest Blessing
- Open-Hearted Communication
- Supercharged Intimacy
- Conscious Monogamy
- Truth-Telling in Relationships
