This is my signature offering called THE WAYSHOWERS.
It is the highest form of service I can provide at this time.
This is a mentorship for people who know in their bones that they are here to create the new paradigm of relationships - and are committed to walking the path that I have created.
If you are a Wayshower, you probably know it:
You're here to embody the highest level of relationships - all the way up to divine union, union with God.
You understand that part of your destiny is to be a Wayshower for others in this domain.
You understand that relationships are a vehicle for healing, growth + evolution on a soul level.
Relationship lessons + healing sexuality have been center stage for you in this lifetime.
You understand how to alchemize the content of your life for soul growth (or, you want to learn how).
You know that we are only scratching the surface of what's possible in relationships, and want to explore and anchor in the vast realms of what's available to us.
You are intuitively pulled to conscious relationships + divine union.
Essentially, you know that you have been drawn here for a reason - and that it is your destiny to be part of the creation of the new paradigm of relationships.
What is it?
The Wayshowers is a three month intensive mentorship that includes 12 weekly 90 minute sessions + daily Telegram support in between sessions.
This is the deepest and most intensive way to work with me.
This is an advanced container using a path that was shown to me, and I don't know of anyone else doing this work.
I have worked with 1000+ people privately over the last 14 years and specialize in practicing relationships with a high level of consciousness and spiritual understanding.
I have also walked this path in my personal life, and have embodied wisdom around this work. Everything comes from my own lived experience.
I have two spots open to begin now - we will start whenever you book your first session.
Before you dive in to the curriculum:
There are two entry points to this program, and I will assess where you're at before we get started.
We will either focus on Levels One + Two, or Levels Two + Three if you have already attained secure attachment, are free of codependency, and have transcended the victim triangle.
(See below for a description of the levels. I also cover them in depth here.)
The vast majority of people begin at Level One to strengthen their foundation, and then we work upwards.
However, there are some people who are ready for the advanced levels now.
It would be impossible to cover everything on the path in three months. However, if you begin at Level One and want to go all the way, you may wish to continue on for another round where we will go higher.
My goal is for everyone to walk down the Path of True Divine Union, and this is the map to get you there.
The path we will walk together:
Level One: Building a Strong Foundation
Building secure attachment
Healing codependency programming
Transcending the drama triangle (victim mentality)
Addressing any empath-narcissist dynamics
My three goals for you during stage one are to develop secure attachment, shed codependency, and step out of the victim triangle.
This provides the most strong + stable foundation upon which everything else is built.
When we don't have this in place, everything else will collapse - I know this from personal experience and from working with many individuals.
The vast majority of people need to start here, or need to go back and fill in any gaps.
There is no shame here, I want to set you up for maximum stability when you transcend to the higher levels.
Some of the practical aspects of Stage One are building a foundation of self-love, mastering boundaries, and understanding reciprocity.
This involves healing any relationship wounds currently operating behind the scenes in your adult life, learning excellent communication, and neutralizing your triggers.
Level Two: Practicing Conscious Relationships
Truth-Telling + Authentic Relating
Radical Self-Responsibility + Self-Compassion
Conscious Dating (or Conscious Relating)
Sexual Healing + Taking Sexuality Higher
Stage Two is all about practicing conscious relationships. This means that you understand that relationships are a vehicle for evolution and you're willing to see all of your unconscious patterns to heal and integrate them.
You do not need a partner for this program. If you don't have one, we will prepare you for partnership and you will also learn to practice conscious relationships now, with everyone in your life.
You will begin working with a deeper, more advanced level of consciousness surrounding what your relationships are calling forward within you.
The idea that relationships are a vehicle to heal, grow + evolve won't just be a concept - you will actually learn how to approach relationships in this way and will experience major healing and growth as a result.
You will begin to master relationship alchemy, and will face the Upper Limit Problem, which is anything holding you back from moving towards your higher self.
We will address any sexual abuse, trauma, and/or distorted sexual programming, and work on the energetic + psychological levels to clear.
Level Three: Divine Union + Spiritual Partnership
Deep understanding of what true Divine Union is and how to move towards it
This is the most advanced level that is available to us right now as humans, once we build Levels One + Two.
You will begin to embody your higher self through deeper levels of shadow work to clear the relational template, anima/animus integration for inner union, and working with the outer union of partnership to continue the soul growth + evolution.
Divine Union is Union with God, it is the union of spirit + matter. It is not a romantic relationship. And yet, it is the most important relationship of all. This is a profound spiritual path. And yet, it can be facilitated through Spiritual Partnership (a love relationship where both people are highly conscious and understand advanced masculine/feminine polarity). The primary relationship in our life needs to be our relationship with God/The Divine. If it is not, the more overt or subtle levels of codependency will still exist in our human to human relationships. Please see here for more information.
We are the Wayshowers of the new paradigm of relationships for spiritual evolution and enlightenment.
You will know in your bones if this is you, I will not convince you that you need this mentorship.
It doesn't matter what level you are currently at, an internal knowing that you are here for this path and a willingness to put in the work is all that is required.
Things to consider:
It is important to make time and space to focus deeply on this work during our time together.
The commitment goes beyond our weekly sessions - we will be interacting most day of the week over 90 days. And, I'll provide books, articles, audios, and other material individualized for you to deepen the work in between sessions, as well as powerful practices to use at home.
Because of this, it is wise to avoid taking on other big commitments such as other programs, etc.
Only you know how much you can handle, but I've seen that people who make the time and space to really go deep over 90 days have the most impactful transformations.
I also highly encourage a regular breathwork practice while we work together (a few times/week is ideal).
The time commitment is significant, depending on how deep you want to go and how quickly you want to move through the work. What you put into it is what you'll get out of it.
Excellent communication is required, and if you need to slow down or have anything adjusted along the way, just let me know.
During our time together, our shared 1:1 space on Telegram is a powerful space for you to ask questions, write reflections, share breakthroughs, challenges, and other notes so that I can monitor your progress and provide feedback in between sessions.
Prerequisites:
You are not new to deep self-work and have already looked at your trauma/relationship wounds.
You don't need to be perfectly healed, but you are able to speak about your life experiences up to this point with maturity, wisdom, and the nervous system ability to hold them without getting dysregulated.
You aren't in crisis mode, and have the bandwidth + desire to move to the next stage of development in your relationships and spirituality.
You have read these three foundational articles and resonate with them:
You wholeheartedly take personal responsibility for life, have a growth mentality, and know that we are here to learn and grow on a soul level through the lessons of life.
If all of this rings true, please book a call below so we can see if this is aligned for us both.
If we have worked together before, just let me know that you are ready to begin - we don't have to meet for a call unless you have questions!
12 weekly private sessions Each session is a 90 minute deep dive: a combination of mentorship, therapy, and breathwork.
Daily support on Telegram I will be in there Mon-Fri to witness your shares and provide support as needed.
Individualized recommendations I will provide books, articles, videos, practices, and many resources along the way that are personalized for you. This program does include homework and practices in between sessions.
Use of astrology We will look at your natal chart to uncover the keys and gifts that you bring to this work.
This mentorship is meant to completely change your life and heal the way you do relationships - forever. It is a powerful transmission of high level wisdom and devotion to the path that will continue to work on you beyond the 90 days together.
Not only will you build a strong + solid foundation of healthy relationship skills, but you will be a true leader for everyone around you, modeling how to use relationships as a spiritual, evolutionary vehicle.
Secret perks of the mentorship that I haven't advertised:
I consider you to be a VIP and give you free access to any group programs that I'm running during our time together (a value of $600-1000 depending on the group).
I also give you free access to the material we cover in Alchemy of the Heart, a 6 week program that covers the alchemy of fear, shame, anger, and sadness, in addition to relationship alchemy (a $777 value). This is foundational work and will take you far.
You also have unlimited access to $50 off 1:1 sessions if you need them after completing the mentorship, and 20% off future group programs.
Finally, you also get free access to my membership community, which includes monthly calls for singles, people in relationships, and our monthly circle + breathwork group. It also includes access to a like-minded community of people dedicated to this path, and a large resource library of video and audio teachings.
Words cannot fully capture this experience, so trust your intuition - you will know if this is the path for you.
If you are ready to be a Wayshower, this is for you.
I collect pre- and post- assessment data to provide quantitative evidence of transformation, in addition to the qualitative shifts that we see and feel.
So far, the data shows:
All of the participants have moved into secure attachment from either anxious, avoidant, or disorganized.
All participants have made significant decreases in their levels of codependency - by an average reduction of 34 points. They all went from high or medium-high levels of codependency to low levels.
Secure attachment, along with freedom from codependency, provides the strongest base from which to rise into the higher levels of conscious relationships and spiritual union.
Qualitative data of anecdotal shifts included:
Practicing conscious relationships skills with partners, family and friends
Developing higher levels of self-love, self-worth, and self-trust
Implementing boundaries with ease and confidence
Moving from taking over-responsibility for problems into 'right' responsibility
Sourcing self-worth from within and building a relationship to something higher (vs. sourcing externally)
Enjoying reciprocal relationships with a balance of giving + receiving
Leaving a variety of situations that were negatively impacting their well-being
Working with triggers in a conscious way for growth + healing (vs. blaming the other)
Developing assertive communication to express needs + wants compassionately
More comfort with vulnerability + true intimacy with others
A healthy balance of togetherness + alone time that reflects secure attachment and interdependency
Leaving people-pleasing behind and embodying their true, authentic self with ease
The results thus far have exceeded my expectations, and I am beyond thrilled for everyone who has gone through the mentorship.
If you're new and want to learn more:
If you are drawn to the mentorship but don't know if you're ready, or if you want more of an introduction to my work, here are some resources:
I have over 40 podcast episodes here that include amazing guests like Laura Matsue, Bernhard Guenther, Erin Telford, Dr. George Simon, Ashly Rose Wolf, Jillian Anderson, Mikaal Bates, Jeddy Azuma and more.
I teach conscious relationship principles that are similar to the framework shared in the book Conscious Loving, so I highly recommend reading this book.
The article by Lynne Forrest on the victim triangle is essential, and I am passionate about helping people transcend this - I believe it is a huge key in the evolution of humanity.
Finally, if you're not ready for this path but want to work together to prepare for the mentorship, I offer single sessions that you can book here.
Please note - I only take on new clients who are aligned with this bigger scope of work. If you aren't, then I can refer you to others who may be a better fit.