The War on Love, Sex + Relationships
.Hi all, it's Leigh-Anne.
There is a war on healthy relationships - in particular, relationships between men + women. There has been for a long time.
It is destroying marriages, eroding families, and robbing us of our divine birthright to embody our TRUE essences.
Since day one, we've been implanted with false ideas of what it means to be men + women.
Some of this programming has been unintentional from those who didn’t know any better, but much of it IS intentional manipulation, and serves an agenda that does not have our best interests at heart.
Hatred and division between men + women is one example.
I used to think this was solely the result of natural cause + effect between the history of male/female relationships. However, there’s a bigger thing at play that’s pitting men + women against each other and encouraging the divide.
If you want to begin your way down the rabbit hole, listen to this incredible presentation by Mark Passio. (Head's up - it's intense, but worth it. And Part Two is even better.)
The list of tools being used to erode authentic sexuality and relationships between men + women is a long one. But here are some of the major ones:
⚔️ Pornography - it's literally hijacking people's brains (especially men's) with heavily distorted preferences that were never theirs to begin with.
We all know that porn desensitizes you, shows a completely unrealistic view of what sex is, does NOT depict people in true sacred union who love each other deeply, and quite frankly, has gotten way more dark, violent, and deranged nowadays than it's ever been.
Back in the day you had to work really hard to access porn (even magazines!) and now it's everywhere with the click of a button, feeding dark addictions all over the place.
Men are becoming addicted at alarming rates and are compulsively masturbating, releasing all of their life force energy (ejaculation) leaving them depleted and weak.
(Thankfully, conversations around semen retention and preserving life force energy are happening more and more - but until men can see just how disempowering this truly is, things won't change.)
Porn = the inversion of sacred sexuality.
It's also targeting our children and grooming them from a very young age.
As a mother, I say HELL NO to this.
This conversation is huge, and this article only serves as an introduction to some of the heavy hitters when it comes to the erosion of sacred union.
I'm only able to give you tidbit sized information on each one of these areas here, but trust that more is coming.
I'm writing a book called The War on Love, Sex + Relationships and am collaborating with experts in the field who clearly see what's going on.
This work is huge and cannot be done alone by one person; we need to work together, because this is truly a spiritual war.
OK, so here are more pieces...
⚔️ Promiscuity Programming - basically, the programming that we are all subjected to that tells us it's okay to have casual sex all over the place. Hookup culture.
Essentially, cheapening sexual energy and robbing us of discernment when it comes to choosing incredible partners who are worthy of sharing this kind of sacred energy with.
It's impacting women as well as in men starting from childhood.
Sometimes disguised behind phrases such as "sex positive." Do not be fooled, this is yet another erosion of the sacred sexual exchange between men + women. It is not "empowerment" to share your sexual energy all over the place with anything that moves, falling prey to your base animalistic desires.
Women especially, use discernment with whose seed you allow into your body. Read my post here for a deeper discussion on why we need to be particular about who we choose to share our bodies with.
The trend towards open relationships + polyamory is part of this, as a mission to destroy monogamy. Monogamous relationships between two people are the only relationships where Divine Union can occur.
Divine Union is the path to awakening, which is why it is being targeted.
⚔️ Neo-Feminism and angry women who hate men - trust me, I know all about trauma at the hands of men, but healing has to happen.
A huge part of my life story is a woman who's had to deeply heal her relationship with men (literally from day one with a father who was abusive on all the levels).
It has taken LOADS of work here over many years, but I've been very intentional with it and am undoing not only my own personal trauma, but also deep generational trauma in my mother line.
I am now in the happiest and healthiest place I have been with men (and the masculine) - I can truly say I LOVE men, and this is a big part of why I am a huge advocate of men's work. I have also been blessed with a son and care deeply with the trajectory of where our men are headed.
Although feminism began with good intentions, the movement has been hijacked and does not have anyone's best interest in mind.
(This is the case with many other movements that have been started by well intentioned people who want to do good in the world. They become taken over and used as weapons in various agendas.)
AND, there's more...
⚔️ A poisoned food supply that’s completely altering men + women’s hormones. Look up Tyrone Hayes' work if you want some disturbing truth here, and this is just one example.
⚔️ An overall weakening of basic relationship skills, the ability to communicate clearly and honestly with each other, and even time spent with each other hanging out in person. Yes, technology and social media have great aspects, but also very detrimental ones as well.
It's getting really bad out there - and we will never progress to true spiritual partnerships with each other if we don't have a strong foundation of basic relationship skills.
⚔️ Lack of understanding about masculine/feminine polarity, and intentional depolarization - two beings at the same pole will never find each other sexually attractive.
However, popular polarity teachings are to be taken with a grain of salt - many problems in the community that want to take us back in time. This is a huge conversation I can't get into here, but I have been speaking out about this since 2017, reflecting on the early movements that were popping up here in Los Angeles. (I speak about this on Instagram a lot.)
⚔️ Any manifestation of the control game of victim/victimizer, dominant/submissive, etc. that exists in society. This perpetuates the victim triangle and keeps us locked in to the roles of victim, persecutor, and rescuer, and the whole triangle.
Lynne Forrest's article here is an excellent primer on how we need to step out of the victim triangle in order to evolve collectively.
⚔️ SO MUCH MORE...moral relativism, massive sex + gender confusion, child + sex trafficking, the whole sex work industry, BDSM, all kinds of addictions, and any kind of distortions within any love, sex + relationship teachings (whether conscious or unconscious).
This is a spiritual war, and we are living in the dark ages.
Are you here to help shine a light on all of the depravity?
If so, please reach out to me because I'm creating a task force of people fired up about this work so that we can tackle it together. If you want to be part of the countermovement to protect sacred union, then please message me on Instagram here.
Oh, and by the way - let me make one thing very clear.
I absolutely love sex. I adore it. But it is holy, and I reserve it for sacred partnership.
Don't forget that sexual energy is probably the easiest type of energy to manipulate in humans.
Do not fall prey.
Hold it high.
There's a lot more to the story, and I'm currently working on the book I mentioned above that outlines the whole thing.
Men + women need each other, and beyond the emotional + spiritual reasons why, the literal survival of humanity depends on it.
We are seeing a major decrease in polarity worldwide leading to an epidemic of intimacy problems, asexuality, low birth rates, and mass confusion regarding gender roles.
Think about all of the conditioning you’ve experienced since day one. How much of this is really you, and how much of it was never you to begin with?
What needs to be let go of in order for you to be truly yourself?
How many generations does this even go back, and what are you carrying in your DNA that has been distorted?
I speak often about all of this publicly on Instagram and my podcast.
I also taught a related class called Matrix Relationships vs. True Divine Union that you can find here.
And finally, if you need support, please book a call with me so we can help you unravel from all of this lower level BS + reach your deepest desires in love, sex + relationships.
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My name is Leigh-Anne, and I am a holistic psychologist specializing in love, sex + relationships.