Hi all, it's Leigh-Anne.
There is a war on healthy relationships, in particular healthy heterosexual relationships. There has been for a long time. It is destroying the relationship between men + women, eroding families, and robbing us of our divine birthright to embody our TRUE essences.
Since day one, we've been implanted with false ideas of what it means to be men + women.
Some of this programming has been unintentional from adults who didn’t know any better, but much of it is intentional social engineering and serves an agenda that does not have our best interests at heart.
Hatred and division between men + women is one example.
I used to think this was solely the result of natural cause + effect between the history of male/female relationships. However, there’s a bigger agenda at play that’s pitting men + women against each other and encouraging the divide.
Some tools being used to erode authentic sexuality:
⚔️ Porn - literally hijacking men’s brains with parasites + heavily distorted preferences that were never authentically theirs to begin with (so much more to say on this topic).
⚔️ Promiscuity programming that is now being heavily implanted in women as well as in men starting from a young age. The trend towards open relationships + polyamory is part of this, as a mission to destroy monogamy. Monogamous relationships are the only relationships where Hieros Gamos (Divine Union) can occur.
⚔️ Angry, unhealed women who hate all men - trust me, I know all about trauma at the hands of men, but healing HAS to happen. Although feminism started with good intentions, the movement has been hijacked and does not have our best interests in mind. (This is the case with many other social movements that have been started by well intentioned people who want to do good in the world - they become infiltrated and used as weapons in various agendas.)
⚔️ Poisoned food supply that’s completely messing up men + women’s hormones.
⚔️ Lack of understanding about masculine/feminine polarity - two beings at the same pole will never find each other attractive.
⚔️ Any manifestation of the Control Game of victim/victimizer, dominant/submissive, etc. that exists in society.
⚔️ Distorted teachings around polarity (more below.)
There's a lot more to the story, and I'm currently working on a book that outlines what I call the Global Sexual Inversion Program.
Men + Women need each other, and beyond the emotional + spiritual reasons why, the literal survival of humanity depends on it.
We are seeing a major decrease in polarity worldwide leading to an epidemic of intimacy problems, asexuality, low birth rates, and mass confusion regarding gender roles.
Think about all of the conditioning you’ve experienced since day one. How much of this is really you, and what needs to be detoxed out of your system? How many generations does this even go back, and what are you carrying in your DNA that has been distorted?
This topic, and all of the associated threads, is HUGE.
BE CAREFUL WITH SHADOW WORK - not everything in your shadow is actually for you to love back into the light. This is a huge topic that I’ll be speaking more about this year. Yes, our shadows (the subconscious) direct our lives, so we must see what's there, but much of it has been programmed through social engineering and isn't ours to carry or integrate. It must be cleansed + detoxed.
BE CAREFUL WITH MASCULINE/FEMININE POLARITY - be selective in who you choose to learn from. Authentic relationships between men + women do NOT include the control game of dominator and submissive.
The Authentic Woman neither submits to the dominator male, or seeks to control the beta male. And vice versa for men. We must move away from this slavery mindset of “power over” others.
I will be speaking more about all of this, because there is so much confusion + it’s perpetuating the dangerous game that they want us to play.
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This type of man is who you already are at a soul level, it is the Authentic Man.
Some of you reading this may already be living in complete alignment with this way of being, and I bow to you. Thank God for you.
If you are feeling the call to step up to the plate and activate your authentic nature, to step into the version of man that women so desperately yearn for (and that we so desperately need at this time), there are two key ingredients to this path.
1) Have a brotherhood around you of awakened men on the path that have your back.
If men's work is new to you, download the PDF here where I share men's groups, mentors, books, etc.
(Why do I support men's work so intensely? To be concise, I have a son and care DEEPLY about men. Also, I have experienced the worst of the worst of men's wounded behavior starting from early childhood and yet STILL SEE YOU AT A SOUL LEVEL and know what you are truly capable of.)
I understand the programming that has been implanted within you in the most nefarious of ways that was NEVER YOURS TO BEGIN WITH.
Although you did not give consent for your authentic nature as a man to be hijacked in this way, it IS your responsibility to clear it so that your behavior can be in pure alignment with the values of truth, sovereignty, integrity, and divine union.
2. Have an awakened woman by your side who holds you to your highest, who truly sees you at a soul level and will not put up with any lower level BS.
Understand and yearn for this because you know it's for your highest good.
Allow her to be your oracle + guide during this time of transition where both men + women are detoxifying themselves of inauthentic programming that is creating an unholy divide that is anti-life and anti-love.
Commit to also being her mirror when required.
These two aspects of having both awakened masculine + feminine energy in your field to guide you on the path are essential, and you can't have one without the other.
If you do not have an awakened woman who can help guide you with love + devotion to this bigger thing that is being asked of all of us, then please reach out to me here to talk. I work with men 1:1 provide the field of awakened feminine energy that is a required part of the equation.
I can help you fully step in to the highest level of integrity, truth + honor, to become a man of high caliber that is desperately needed at this time.
If you are there already, but still have not attracted in your woman, I can show you why + help you make the adjustments necessary to call her in.
We don't have time to waste. This thing is coming in with the power of an ocean and will clear away any lower level behaviors with force if need be.
As long as you are open + willing to face these shadows and lower level programming in order to release and uplevel, you will be fully supported.
Love + Devotion,
My name is Leigh-Anne, and I'm a psychologist specializing in romantic relationships. I use the principles of conscious relationships and masculine/feminine polarity to guide individuals and couples into incredible love and partnership.
This masterclass teaches you the keys to attract incredible love that have worked for both myself and my clients. I'm so excited to share it with you.
Which module was most impactful for you? Let me know in the comments below.
What I love about my man is that he doesn't leave.
No matter how strong and intense my energy is, he doesn't leave.
He welcomes it. He can handle my charge, and he sees how it sharpens his own sword of Presence.
This allows me the safety and security to peel back the layers of all of my masks/ego so that I can stand in front of him in true Authenticity.
And then the container gets stronger with SO MUCH Trust that our connection is profound beyond words.
My man doesn't leave.
Even when my nervous system can't possibly hold the amount of love that he's directing at me and I try to escape feeling the intensity of that charge, and his full presence, leading me to unconsciously self-sabotage what we have in subtle ways.
Gay and Kathleen Hendricks pinpoint that the only problem in awakened, conscious relationships is the Upper Limit Problem.
That the only thing you REALLY have to watch out for at this level is blocking your own ability to experience the majesty of such a high-level container, which often plays out through unconscious self-sabotage.
They write, "most of us cannot be close to others for very long without creating a problem to limit the positive energy."
This is what we're playing with right now. Can we allow the high vibrational energy that we co-created in our relationship to run through our system without freaking out and trying to block it from coming in?
We often think that we avoid relationships when things get hard, and that's true, but can you ask yourself if the opposite is also true? That you simply can't handle the charge of SO MUCH GOODNESS?
In what ways are you committed to expanding your nervous system's ability to hold maximum joy, love, and pleasure?
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There are a lot of problematic teachings currently happening in "the scene," so please watch if you're using polarity in your relationships/dating.
I've spoken about the dogma since day one, but get very clear and specific in this video.
Have you felt the restrictiveness in the way masculine/feminine polarity is being taught?
Do you feel that the energetics of masculine and feminine are being taught in a watered down, superficial, dogmatic way?
Additionally, I touch upon why you do not (and should not) have polarity activated 100% of the time.
This is a very important video to watch if you're interested in polarity, or are currently applying the teachings.
Let me know any questions or comments you may have so we can iron it all out. The core universal truths of polarity remain in tact, but we need to be careful about filtering them through the lens of ego vs. truth.
There's multiple ego deaths + rebirths happening over here. It feels exciting, necessary, and totally inconvenient.
I've ALWAYS experienced the biggest breakthroughs by opening to the most uncomfortable truths.
(Have you, too?)
That's why from a place of love + service, my work has an element of tough love.
For those of us that do well with this approach, the sword of truth/love can get right to the core, quickly.
I've been told multiple times that my work is "confronting."
I am not here to placate or enable you. That would actually be the opposite of love.
I refuse to water down my work to make it easier to swallow, and I trust my people are strong, hearty and willing to do the work.
We have to ask ourselves often, are we truly placing ourselves out of our comfort zones? For the benefit of humanity?
At this stage in my life + career, I've shifted from the sweet, overprotective enabler into the archetype of Kali Ma who wields the sword of truth + love to destroy all that no longer serves you.
One of the most misunderstood expressions of the feminine: as fearsome as she may appear, she is actually the most compassionate.
Most of us turn away from experiences like this.
Some of us willingly call them in.
I serve people who are brave + ready.
Whenever you are against the body, you are going against God. - Osho
WOMEN'S CIRCLE: Opening to Sensuality
Saturday, July 17th
4:00 - 5:30 PM PST
July's Circle is all about connecting to the divine feminine. How do you connect with your body, intuition, pleasure, emotions? How easy is it for you to shift out of the more masculine-oriented rational mind into these other ways of experiencing life?
This circle will be a combination of teaching, sharing, embodiment, and community building.
FREE for members
$44 for non-members
Link in bio - Upcoming Events ✨
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Truly my favorite conversation ever with transformational coach and menâs work leader Mikaal Bates about masculine/feminine polarity, David Deidaâs three stages of relationship, conscious/spiritual partnership, and SO much more.
What questions or comments do you have for us?
We are passionate about this work and want to hear from you.
In this IGTV video, I speak about the obvious tie-in between the masculine + feminine and our physical bodies.
Men and women are VERY different creatures, and that is sacred and holy. This is something that is currently being minimized or bypassed by the new wave of polarity teachers.
Let me know your thoughts in the comments - let's discuss!
I remember the universe smacking me HARD across the face back in 2015 when my therapist made the wise observation that people pleasing was manipulative (of course this was in relation to how I was showing up in the relationship.)
My ex and I were in the throes of darkness, trying to repair our far-gone marriage with 2x weekly counseling.
A huge theme was that I was not being my true self - I was putting him on a pedestal and shapeshifting myself into whatever I thought he wanted me to be for his love + approval (I guess you could label that an extreme form of people pleasing).
As it washed over me that I had totally abandoned myself while simultaneously manipulating him into believing I was something that I was not (obviously not on purpose, but you know…) I felt the sting. I finally began to understand co-creation + ownership of my behavior + the realization that I needed to do some serious work on self-love.
Obviously we do this not because we want to be manipulative, but because we feel we don’t have any other choice. The real version of us that we could show up as is just not lovable or worthy.
Nevertheless, it’s behavior that needed to change, and as I relaxed back into my true self and REALLY got in touch with who I was + what I needed, the relationship unraveled and we eventually divorced.
I share this story with you because:
1) I know so many can relate, and
2) I want to tell you that being your authentic self is ALWAYS the way.
I never would’ve attracted Andrés if I hadn’t healed that pattern...
and I want to empower you to get SO real with who you are, what you need, and what you have to offer that there’s simply no other way to be.
Let me know in the comments why you’re DONE with people pleasing + abandoning yourself.
Let’s collectively burn that sh-t to the ground.